[Saffron]

I have been out of the dating scene for a long time so I can only tell you what I have seen and what I have experienced. If a girl has her own place, the guys here just want to use her. Personally I don't think it is fair on the guy to have to spend a lot of money on a girl unless he really wants to. At the same time a guy shouldn't use a girl nor should a girl use a guy. I don't know what else they do anymore. It used to be that a decent guy would take a girl out to the cinema or if he didn't have much money would take a nice walk somewhere. I think having a nice date talking and having a nice time is more important and means much more than how much a guy spends.