Minimin: I'm really surprised because I thought Memphis was a nice place. Though that is coming from someone who has never been to America
I don't blame you at all for not wanting to date a wanna be gansta. There are gangs here and last year I lost count how many black school kids were murdered through those wanna be gangsters. It is better for you to wait for someone nice to come along. Luckily here it is not legal to own a gun unless it is for hunting and something like that and they have to have a license. Though people do get shot but not that often. Knife crimes are more of a thing here. I think it's okay to be picky because you wont get hurt so much that way. I have been hurt a lot so I don't trust guys so much now.