[noodle]

With my ex, I was the dominant one when it came to important things... However, I let her make lots of decisions on things that I knew would make her happy. Small things to me, but important things to her, so we were happy like that...

I think for me, I'm the more dominant person when the relationship gets to "serious" level. At the start, neither me, nor the girl are dominant. We are more independant at the start!