[Visualxake]

I'm not a girl but, i feel like giving me 2 cents.

There seems to be some misconception as to what it takes to be 'vk'.
It doesn't to be crazy and over-the-top.
You dont necessarily need crazy hair, and crazy make-up, and specific clothes.
You can dress in a vk style without buying "VK clothes" from brands recognized as 'vk', seriously.
And miss-matched clothes dont make you vk.. they just make you, well, miss-matched.
You can even look at some bands that dress in a more conservative style.
Going all out vk everyday is dumb, just do what i do, have different levels of your look, so when you go somewhere special you can look extra special.

eg. I always wear eyeliner, sometimes i'll add some red/green eyeshadow. and i usually have some kind of design which can be minor or very elaborate.

I only have plain clothes, so i focus more on my make-up to stress my visual-ness.

in the end i guess it's not really what you where as much as how you wear it. if that makes any sense... lol