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Originally Posted by Jo_Kittie
If a guy says "I want you" what does it really mean? That he wants her to be with him, he wants to have sex with her, or that he wants her to be his? Maybe all of those? :x
I'm just in a bit of a do-not-know-what-the-hell-to-think-situation. So help me out here, will ya? .__.
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Depends on the context - does he tell you he wants you as he's grabbing you or in a tender verbal way while you're having a meaningful talk? The former is obvious, the latter less so. No way to know for sure which is why it's not a good idea to give in to him until you're 100% sure of his motivations. Guys can easily let their desires get the better of them and even convince
themselves they want you but in the end find out (unfortunately) it was only physical. If you pride yourself & your body, and want to avoid getting hurt - make the boy work for it and prove that his desires last much beyond the physical - that takes time - but your heart and self-respect are worth it!
- Nishi