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Wink Try this out... find someone who love you... not the one you love - 01-19-2009, 06:50 AM

How to try this? You will start thinking that you have to wait in slience until someone confess you.

No! Definitely not like that. But it's pretty simple.

When you find a girl or guy you like:
1. Make sure you like 80% of him/her.
2. Be friend for a few weeks. Go out together.
3. Make sure none of his/her action what you dun like and check if he/she like yr action.
(Note: whatever you do until here, DO NOT fall in love yet.)
4. If you think u sure like him/her, go ahead. Confess that you like him/her. Still dun fall in love. Fair enough, you will either be accpeted or rejected.

Be happy if you are accepted and start falling in love bit by bit.

Get rejected!? who care!? You r still not in love state. Just back off and find another one.. there is no point in draggin along with someone who reject you. And they will only see u as a bother. Forget it. It doesn't worth your time.

REMEMBER... only be true to someone who love you... dun give time for those who you love.

Hope all of you find your right beloved one.

P.S. You may say what a cruel way to do, confessing without actually loving. Hey, trust me... you can always build up love after you two make out. there r plenty of time. but this is the best way to prevent breaking your own too delicated heart if you got rejected in slightest bit of chance. Anyway, I wont 100% say this will work for everyone... but it kept me with my 1st love for over 3yr, until now, though we have alot of fight time to time.
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