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01-20-2009, 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted by yuukilovesbrownies View Post
I have a question since we're on the subject of pronouns. When is it appropriate to use 僕(ぼく) and 俺(おれ)? I know 俺 can be seen as rude, but I've notices many young Japanese guys use it. 僕 sounds kinda childish and 私 is almost exclusively used by females. I'm a 14 year old guy who is a beginner in Japanese. What pronoun would be most appropriate for me to use?
You don't really have a choice.

For formal setting, use わたし
For informal setting where you don't know the person well, use ぼく
For people you know well and is of a equal or lower status, use おれ
If you feel macho, you can use おれさま

If you use ぼく with people you know well, then you might sound a bit kiddish but it's miles better than ぼくちゃん.

Again, the general rule of thumb is to avoid pronouns if you could help it.

Last edited by kirakira : 01-20-2009 at 04:15 AM.
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