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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire
Eh? I told you that my experience with Japanese people is not valid either when it comes to making generalisations (or it's as valid as yours).
You're the one being the armchair sociologist. You want to be taken seriously? Then take a leaf from the book of the guy that made the thread about anti-feminist white men in Japan who tend to be socially inept in the West but managed to find wives, girlfriends in Japan.
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Are you saying I am socially inept because I have had Japanese girlfriends and a Japanese wife? I'll have you know I have had girlfriends from several different Western countries and was married to an American before. I find most American (and some other western countries) women to be very spoiled, demanding, bossy, and uncooperative. (ladies I said most, so don't get mad) I believe that western women try so hard to be considered equals that they ruin the relationship by trying to make sure that they are in control and not an equal partner in it. If not allowing a woman to control and not share in the relationship is anti-feminist, then I am guilty of that. My wife (and prior Asian girlfriends) is very happy because I do treat her equal and we cooperate with each other. I rarely found this with the western women I was involved with. My wife refused to marry a Japanese man because she felt the same way towards them as I feel towards western women now.
Socially inept? Take a look at my photos in the members galleries. I dated a lot of those women I am in the photos with. I'd rather be socially inept and keeping busy with those beautiful Asian women than watching "Dateless Dude Theater" and getting cramps in my hand from overuse like you!