Thank you Nyororin,
I finally have a response from a girl, even married n with good personal experience.
All these stuff about anime n manga, I know they are not close to reality...
But I also know there are such characters in reality... even though rare...
And I could see the problem those japanese ppl facing... esp. young one...
girls really like to be praise or show off by their bf in the public... and the guys lack of courage make them disappointed. And that when those American n Western guys snatch away those pure innocent girls... the japanese society has change coz of that.
Anyway... of coz we will nvr know or understand what another person's feelings are... rite?
There is no point in keep arguing...
But if someone who having this kinda personality, give out his opinion will be great...
On second thought... they might probably not...