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Originally Posted by bELyVIS
Are you saying I am socially inept because I have had Japanese girlfriends and a Japanese wife? I'll have you know I have had girlfriends from several different Western countries and was married to an American before. I find most American (and some other western countries) women to be very spoiled, demanding, bossy, and uncooperative. (ladies I said most, so don't get mad) I believe that western women try so hard to be considered equals that they ruin the relationship by trying to make sure that they are in control and not an equal partner in it. If not allowing a woman to control and not share in the relationship is anti-feminist, then I am guilty of that. My wife (and prior Asian girlfriends) is very happy because I do treat her equal and we cooperate with each other. I rarely found this with the western women I was involved with. My wife refused to marry a Japanese man because she felt the same way towards them as I feel towards western women now.
Socially inept? Take a look at my photos in the members galleries. I dated a lot of those women I am in the photos with. I'd rather be socially inept and keeping busy with those beautiful Asian women than watching "Dateless Dude Theater" and getting cramps in my hand from overuse like you!
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I'm not saying anything... I was simply giving you advice on the correct way to make a generalisation. It's a coincidence that the generalisation fit the fact that you have a Japanese wife.
As I told Keaton... I'm not interested in what you think of me. I'm not going to brag about my love life on here in some sort of dick measuring contest because I really don't feel the need to prove anything to anyone so please stop. Personally speaking I think I'm better looking than you anyway but whatever... eye of the beholder and all that.
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Originally Posted by bELyVIS
By the way, you have insulted all Japanese women who date or marry westerners by implying that they can only find romance with western rejects. How do you think your female Japanese friends would feel about you if they knew that was your thinking?
"Many foreign women living in Japan have told me that the white men they encounter in Japan very much fit within this description. "
Is it possible that these foreign women are mad because foreign men would rather date Japanese women? This blog said nothing important because it was just one sided. Get a better source before you insult people.
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I suggest you take another look at it.
The blog stated an observed phenomena and hypothesized on the causes of this phenomena based on factual generalisations about Japanese society. It needn't have offended you or anyone else unless it hit a nerve. The generalisation allows for room to distance yourself from it if you happened to be a white male dating a Japanese woman and you felt it didn't apply. It also avoided painting everyone with the same brush.
You however stated a perception as fact, applied it to a whole group of people and dismissed people who didn't fit into your perception as exceptions to the rule. I'm telling you now... that's not how it works.