01-22-2009, 08:01 PM
I had at one point been in love with my closest guy friend on and off for three years. In that situation I didn't say anything because I knew that he did not and would not like me back in that way. I never told him, and just kind of got over it with time..
In the end, it really depends on the nature of the friendship. If you think there is a good chance of things working out and you can trust that your friendship would stand a chance even after a failed relationship than it may be worth it to have a good time together as lovers. However if you don't think they will return your feelings it may be better not to risk it.
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