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Originally Posted by HaruHotaru
Ironically, my heart has been hurt/broken much more by best friends than by anyone I went out with -- though all my dating days stopped at the end of high school, and I met the man whom I've been married to for 14 years now this coming March.
So, concerning the best-friends: It was very rare for me to find a real friend out of all of the "friends", "budz" or aquaintances that I've had over time. I've had three best friends in the past - the first "dumped" me for the "cool crowd"; the second "dumped" me for her personal gain (i.e. to steal my boyfriend directly afterward, plus turning several other 'friends' against me over gossip), and the third "dumped" me becuase -- y'know, to this day, I never found out why.
I now have a best friend who is married and has 2 sons just like I do. We've had an unbreakable bond for 8 years and counting. So it proves to me that a heartbreak is like pruning a plant - your heart can grow (instead of wither away) and heal; it does, of course, take time.
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Great insight at the end of ur post. Loved it. ^.^ I do agree on the friendship thing. I have one friend who just had a baby. She talked to us through the whole pregnancy and we were always there to help her out. Shortly after she had her son she stopped talking to us. She still sits at out table during lunch, but with her friends now. I wonder what happened.....? 0.o