[Tsuwabuki]

JET turned me down three years ago.

But you know what? I didn't whine and moan. I went on with my life. If your friend is really qualified to be here, he'll find a way to get here. It may be harder, it may be more expensive, but if he does the work, he can get here.

So either he needs to be quiet, realise it isn't personal, and work harder on an alternate route to Japan, or he needs to recgonise that this isn't where he wanted to be anyhow, and then he needs to be quiet MORE.