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gaijindude0854 (Offline)
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03-04-2009, 02:51 PM

Sangetsu thanks for the advice. I guess I should just find another girl. Unfortunately I live in the inaka so I have to go to the city to meet young women. Anyway some other girl will hopefully be better than her. I just couldn't understand why this girl told me that she was so excited to see me and she was looking forward to spending the whole weekend with me.

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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire View Post
Good advice... though we should also be open to the possibility that this woman was just being friendly from the beginning and that the OP being a guy was reading way too much in her friendliness.

If that is the case then my advice would be to simply enjoy the fact that you have a new friend. If you can't do that well then you're a creep and her hospitality and open kindness, which is such a good behavioural trait in my opinion is wasted on a narrow minded creep like you.
From my experience here in Japan when a girl wants you to stay at her place for the weekend it means that she is interested in being more than friends. So basically I'm a narrow minded creep cause I'm into a girl? That doesn't make sense to me.
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