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I really think it depends on the reasons why you like Japan or your level of interest. Some people make Japan into a fantasy world based on some kind of entertainment they've seen when it's entirely inaccurate. If you have an authentic reason for interest that has some kind of merit other than anime or J-Rock or a Gwen Stefani video, then there should be no reason why some knuckleheads' opinions should affect your focus.