[Nyororin]

I agree with MMM here - this is a pretty normal thing.

For a while there I was helping quite a few people prepare for and make it to Japan. Every single time it ended like that or worse. Now I keep my distance unless they very strongly appear to be different (like the most recent person I helped out. No regrets there...)

It`s a gap between expectations and reality. They have high expectations and only hear the things you say that support those expectations. And then when something isn`t exactly as they expected, it all comes crashing down and they blame you for not telling them ahead of time that something they thought was wrong. Of course, without psychic powers you couldn`t have known what they were thinking.

Sad as it is, this happens all the time.