[TalnSG]

My worst was after a three year relationship that was all but living together.

He dropped me off at my new apartment one evening and after all day working together at a Ren Fair and I asked him to move in. He declined and then told me were also breaking up. He "couldn't take it any more" because I had "changed so much" over the past year. Yeah, I had - in every way he had asked me to change!!!!

I wasn't me anymore and he was right, but it was agony and anger for a while till I realized how much better off I was without him. But even at the worst of it I was glad he declined sharing the apartment first.

Now there are a few unique rejections I have delivered, but that's another matter.