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Originally Posted by Hellkite

ah, sorry, okay, yes yes

i have never been in japan before, but know over 50 or 60 people and know a lot about the country. and i go to japan next year already

I appreciate your openness and honesty.

So you have committed to spending the rest of your life in a country you have never visited? I moved to Hyogo-ken at the same time as 100 people who had never lived in Japan before (all from English speaking countries). Two of the most out-going, energetic, open and enthusiastic people in that group basically snapped after a few months. One man from England was convinced the school had him under surveillance and had put chips in his watch and neck and another woman from California thought the reason her electricity went out was because the school she worked for wanted her to quit. It turned out she just blew a fuse, but she went for two weeks without electricity (or going to work) before her mother was called to fly to Japan and take her home. The last two people you would think that would "lose it".

Thankfully they only broke the contract they had with their schools.

Originally Posted by Hellkite

we spent together around 1 month in vienna, and we call us everyday with our phone and see us on skype too. and she comes again in november, this year.

Only a month? In my opinion you should spend face-to-face time with someone for at least two years before you can know them well enough to make a commitment like marriage.

Originally Posted by Hellkite

we will live in sapporo, in her apartment, her parents gave us.

i will work at a restaurant as a cook and later on, try to be the manager of a shop, her parents do for her and me. and for me, i have over...well, i dont want to mention here, but lets say far more than 10 000 euros for our start

Do you know what restaurant you will work at? What will you cook? I don't mean to be insulting when I say, outside of a fast food restaurant, most people don't want to pay for food cooked by a teenager, unless you have some special talent, of course. 10,000 euros? There's a car or year one covered.

Originally Posted by Hellkite

she works at a hotel already, and later on with me together in the shop
and she has her parents support and also quite a lot of money for our start and wedding.

It seems curious to me why parents would commit to so much for a boy they have never even met before for their daughter, but even if everything you have said is true, why have you set a date when you have never seen the foreign country you are planning on spending the rest of your life in? What is the hurry? What's wrong with checking it out making sure you can actually function there before committing to it for the rest of your life?