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Originally Posted by TalnSG
Ths would be true regardless of the culture, but in Japan it will be even more blatant and expected. You will have no recourse at all if you think he is unfair or treats you poorly, except to abandon everything ...... inlcuding the woman who will always be his daughter first and your wife second.
For some people this is fine, and it may be well worth it over time, but consider it very carefully because it goes against all modern male western culture.
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Interesting and valid viewpoint if they follow the traditional Japanese system of family dynamics.
The OP mentioned that her parents liked him so I guess the question to ask would be this; Is she the only child? If not, does she have an older brother or sister?