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Originally Posted by Hellkite
wow 
well, dont take my situation so hard, rather tell me your experiences >u< hah
and thanks alanX, thanks you defend me, and it sounds interesting about your whole family actually. can you tell me how it was for them always to marry early?  just tell me about their experience, if you can and if it is okay for you. |
Did you see the part where AlanX agreed with me that you need to get to know her better, and at least visit Japan before you commit to spending the rest of your life there?
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Originally Posted by Hellkite
i know it is early, i myself never wanted to marry so son first, but then i also looked at my parents, and that i was born too late, when my parents were around 35 or such, i was born, thats too late in my opinion, and they married with 32 or so. i dont want to do so again, and for her parents, they were with her this one month, and also saw me, and this year her mother comes with her again. |
Do you understand the difference between 17 and 32? Of course not, because you are 17. Are you really rushing into marriage to have children young? What does your fiance feel about this?