05-05-2009, 10:11 AM
Nyororin, thanks for your advice. The location on your map is less then 10 minutes by bike from where I live. It will be extremely useful, now I wont have to go to Shinjuku for that.
I was so freaked out in my head that I hadn't even considered the option of telling her right now. But you're right, in the eventuality that I turn out positive, this would be the best way to prevent extra emotional damage...
Anyway, I really need to think about it, I'm thinking of mostly avoiding her for the next few weeks, because even though we live close, it's easy to blame it on the work schedule. Then as more tests would turn out negative I'd increase the frequency of our meetings back to usual. I was gonna postpone sex for as long as possible, but damn... I guess I might have to tell her eventually anyways...
I highly doubt she'd find out from someone else though. I left the club alone and started heading back home, but my friends stayed there until this morning. So I was alone when I went with that chick.
Anyways, thanks.
And as for the last guy, it's hard enough for me as it is. If this happened to you, would you post this story on a forum where everybody knows you?
I'm in Japan and wanted advice from internet users, hence, I typed into google, "japan forums", and this site was the first page, because that's what it's called. Common sense. I mean, I was expecting some mockery, because I did something really stupid, but that was just disrespectful and useless.
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