My main problem is the city I live in. There are three colleges here and a military base. There is also another big college and military base about an hour away. Most of the girls here go for the military guys (which I am not one at all), and most of the females my age are usually married or divorced with kids.
That being said, I'm also extremely picky. There is very little to do in this town. Basically, you can go downtown or to the beach and get drunk. I personally hardly ever drink, and when I do I don't do it to get drunk. I don't want to date someone who likes to get drunk either. Second thing kind of falls inline with the first. Clubs. I'm not into clubs. They are usually too loud, the guys are usually there for one thing, and a lot of the times the girls don't even want to talk to a guy if they aren't already there with one. Mainly because of the only thing the guys are there for. Third thing to do, sadly, drugs. I don't do drugs, I won't do them, and I really don't want to hang around those who do them. (personal reasons). There is also going to the beach during the day. I'm not a fan of the beach during the day. I burn too easily and am very very pale (yes I wear pants all the time)
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Originally Posted by Sutiiven
well would being 20 with a 30 yr old be odd?
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I've had a few girls just out of high school that work at the mall I do that have liked me. I personally find it hard for me to even think about hanging out with someone that is 10 years younger than me. So 12 is right out. And no I'm not one of those pigs that would just try to get with them.