[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by Undertherose25

I don't want a boyfriend, I've only had one in my 19 years of life.

Reasons why, you ask? Sure!

• I have slightly high expectations and standards.
  
• My 'friends first' requirement seems to put off a lot of people as well, but since my first boyfriend and I dated after a week of knowing each other we both agreed it was better to be friends with someone first.
  
• And my ex and I being friends seems to piss off a lot of people that are interested but I always tell 'em 'Sisters of before Misters' [yes I call him a girl, I always have lol].
  
• Plus the drama after we broke up is slightly off-putting when it comes to another relationship...I'm shocked we're still friends after what he put me through.
  
• I need to sort myself out before I start dating someone else.
  
• And I want to make sure I'm 100% sure I'm over my ex-boyfriend and not rebounding before I even consider someone else

You see, the problem I see there, is you're taking relationships at the age of 19 way to seriously.

You see, for me personally, I've never had a relationship that's so intense at my current age, that I had to recuperate. And I'm younger than you. Don't get me wrong, I've been through pretty hard relationships. Ones that have brought all kinds of shit up, but I never had to "sort" myself out before starting to date someone else.

So, the problem there, I perceive, is that you're wound up too much about this last relationship. You need to stop taking relationships so seriously, and just date for fun.