[alanX]

Wow.

Spicytuna..... You are so beyond knowing anything about love, it's not even funny. To even state the words statistics and love in the same sentence just tells me pretty straight forward you are, indeed, completely lost in all of this. Love isn't about stastics, I'm sorry your spring fling relationships did work out, really I am, maybe if you were rich she would have thrown herself all over you.

Marriages fail everyday because of financial problems. I'm not against this statement in anyway. But marriages revolved around LOVE, with LOVE as the center center point, do NOT fail because of money. If a marriage fails because of money, then it was a loveless marriage, simple as that.

If she loves you, and you love her, then money is no issue at all, you'll find a way to be together. No, I'm not lost in some fairy tale true love Romeo and Juliet daydream. If you're both broke, then of course it will be difficult to be together, but if love is involved, then you will find a way to make it work, money or no money.

I do understand what you're saying, but it is wrong. I think someone must have really done some damage to you before, lol. One day you'll stop moping around and embarrassing yourself by saying "finance can destroy love."