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Originally Posted by biginjapan
Well, I spent a year in Japan and I must say I was disappointed that I never had a relationship when I was there. I saw so many of my friends get girlfriends in no time but there I was having no luck. I'm a short guy but I'm pretty good looking and I have a muscular build. Also, I do have pretty bad cauliflower ears. I got them from doing jiujitsu and I slacked off and never got them drained so it is possible that they are intimidated by that? I'm not sure if this is true but my buddy said my problem may be that I don't fit the Japanese girl's standard of beauty. Its quite a shock for me because in the states I find that girls prefer muscular over skinny. I always assumed it was true for Japan as well.
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I'm no relationships expert, but I don't think it's your body-type that's the problem. A body is a body. Not every Japanese women is exactly a model; peoples standards differ... or, to put it less cynically, people's
personal preferences differ.
The problem is, IMO, you just didn't meet the right people.