[Jaydelart]

When people are being assholes, they usually realize it.
They probably wouldn't admit it, of course... but they realize it, nevertheless.

I have had people, who I've helped, blame me for their own mistakes.
That's the nature of the game; When you involve yourself in other people's business, you have to expect some of them to react negatively.

That shouldn't stop you from helping others, though.
You did a good thing.