Best places to get clothing for beginners is
BODYLINE YOKOSO!
or
Anna House *~ Diffuse Pretty Dreams ~*
Both ship worldwide as far as I know, and the prices are the most reasonable you'll find for decent quality.
As for makeup, I have a tutorial here:
http://i43.photobucket.com/albums/e3...LolitaLook.jpg
And a good place for advice is here:
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