[JBaymore]

Maybe a way to summarize the difference between Japan and America when it comes to stuff like prostitution is that in America, it is certainly there to be had if you want it and if you do, you should be ashamed. In Japan, it is just there if you want.

Many people would also find mixed bathing found at some onsen to be absolutely scandalous and proof of Japanese "low morals". Nothing could be further from the truth.

I'm not advocating any particular "sexual propriety standard" here... just talking about the origianl poster's point. It is all about what your "measuring stick" is. If you come from a background that finds an open attitude about "things sexual" as wrong, then a culture that does not hold that same belief will likely seem very different and threatening to you.

best,

...................john