[darksyndrem]

You guys have been a HUGE help, and JBaymore, I think your right about having a talk with the parents. And with it being an underlying reason, your probably right as well. I really don't know what the real reason may be, but like you said me growing up, is a very likely reason. I also don't think my parents quite understand the whole host parenting thing yet (I don't quite understand it yet either) but with what you guys have said about how responsibility is taken in Japan, I think that will be quite reassuring.

@Salvanas, at this point, I'm not sure if what I think is immoral is relevant. I think I'm really just comparing Japan to America, in a way. I will still say that what I (and mostly my parents) consider immoral is based on Christian morals, because I've grown up in a Christian household and my parents have as well (Which is no reason to be facepalmed.). And maybe some of you have a different view on Christianity, I know for sure that some Christians have really changed people's perspective on us, in a negative way, which...well I won't get into that. And just to get something straight, the church did not lable sex a sin...only permarital sex (from what I know) and I really don't have much of an opinion on it because I'm just that unstable (?)

Anyways, thank you for all your help so far!!!