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Originally Posted by Sitron
I am a loner, and have been for a few years. I don't have a single friend. Not a single one to be with. When I'm at work it's okay because I don't feel like socializing. But I don't know what to do on weekends, and I don't know how to keep myself from jumping out the window during the lonely holidays.
How do you loners manage to get through days and weeks and months without being with friends? Don't you feel the loneliness keeps you from having goals, and aspirations?
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Hey, I just moved back to NYC after like 6 years away, And now, I don't know anyone anymore. All the people I grew up with anyone anymore. All the people I grew up with are either gone, or too absorbed in their own lives to care about what I'm doing or not doing with mine. That even goes for family too, which I find particularly shameful...
But, I kind of think that it's mostly my fault... It's not that it's mostly my fault... It's not really other people's obligation to mostly my fault... It's not really other people's obligation to care about me, I have to make them care about me. Maybe our problem is that we're not really social people。I mean, I've been here a month, but I can't be angry at all women because I haven't found a girlfriend yet, because I've hardly even talked to girls. I mean, my bday's coming up in less than a week, and it seems increasingly likely that I'll be spending it alone... (sidebar: who has a birthday without birthday sex? that's like, ridiculous)
Friends are out there... theoretically, anyway. I know I'd be an excellent friend to someone. Its just a question of being social enough to meet that person. I wish you the best of luck,man. We'll both need it.
Thx fr letting me rant. I gotta go home now though...
