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06-27-2009, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Columbine View Post
Actually, I'm a bit baffled. You're going on a host stay mediated by some kind of school/uni right? And the host, I assume, already knows something about you, and probably you're not their first foreign host?

See, I was at a place last year where this was an option (about 1/2 the students did that) and the people I knew who took this, who had tattoo's and piercings, generally didn't have a huge problem. There was pretty much a non-committal 'Eh, but that's what young people DO, isn't it?" attitude. In fact I can only think of one student who had initial problems, but he was a BIG burly shaven-head type guy with a lot of tattoo's down his arms and back and his japanese wasn't good so he had a hard time explaining that he was maori and what the tattoo's were really all about. It did get smoothed out in the end though.

A lot of them did make attempts to make their tatt's and whatnots more subtle, especially if there was company around, but generally after a while it was just accepted as part and parcel. It's not like piercings amongst college students are really that much of a rarity in Japan anymore either. Well, maybe in other areas. My city might have been unusually liberal, I don't know.

As for the food thing, allergies were generally accepted without much fuss, it's things like lent that the host family's found really hard to get their head's around.
It's good to hear this. =) And I'm going to Kyoto city too, so hopefully what you say will work out. Where were you last year?

But no, even though I'm going through a school, the school told all of us that we won't find out about our host family and they won't find out about us until mid-August, and we arrive in September. I think that might be common with exchange programs.


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