[Ryzorian]

Asian girls being disconcerted about appearing "hot" to some one might be due to cultural ideals about not attracting attention to ones self. Least ways that might be part of it.

I'm also sure no one wants to be considered an "object" I most assuredly agree with you there. However, most people like to think they are attractive to others.

So wether someone dislikes how a person reacts to them prolly depends a good deal on what type of reaction it is and how it's presented. No girl would apreciate catcalls but I'm sure many would value a kind word or two. Such as You dress likes nice on you or I like what you did with your hair and that sort of thing.

I realize it's small talk to some dagree, but woman/girls go through alot of trouble to present themselves in a way they feel confident in, and haveing someone notice the effort they make, is appreciated.