[Nyororin]

I don`t recall telling you to give up your dreams. I did intend to tell you not to make huge commitments without knowing what you are getting into. I mean, I live in Japan, have lived here for 10 years, and have absolutely no intention to leave. Ever. I can think of nowhere else I`d like to live more.
But I guess telling you the fact that most people do not end up feeling that way is crushing your dreams. *sigh*