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Originally Posted by mercedesjin
Now you see, I don't know if it's all about learning for you. Learning is about facts. Facts, when learning, are supposed to be given. Facts have nothing to do with statements made specifically at people, making comments on their personality. I gave the fact that no one has a responsibility to reply. You gave your personal and degrading that the two of us "clearly don't like a challenge."
You crossed the line of learning by making that statement. You started the path to another argument - another argument that I'm definitely not in the mood for. So, Tenchu, because I don't have the responsibility to respond to you, forgive me for not responding to you from here on out.
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You won't respond, but I know you'll read.
I didn't degrade you in saying you don't like a challenge, unless a challenge for you is pressing a ignore button. You're too easily offended; overly sensative.
Learning is not always about absorbing plain facts. Theorising and viewing, social interaction, these things help you progress as a character.
In the end, the best thing about discussing seemingly useless things online for me is to become preresolved. So that when difficult times come, I am not unsure of myself, and can make decisions quickly; I know where I stand.
I'm very thankful for some of the more challenging members of this forum; Shaelyn, MMM, Ronin4Hire, Ivionky, Noodle. Honestly, I'm not excessivly fond of any of them. MMM and Shaelyn are\were hard people to dislike, but they certainly challenged my views with a lethal passion.
If you remove people like this from your life, in this case, with the click of a single button, it doesn't really show much for your character, I think.
Of course, there is also the fact that I never really said anything too dramatic, anyway. It was a plain view; why has this person made a thread about liking Asian guys and fighting with her father? What, is she\he just 12?