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07-16-2009, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by iPhantom View Post
A debate team has already knowledge or experience for what they talk about, unlike what you did. How did you form this opinion, defend it but THEN needed Google to be certain. You had your doubts girl.

Also both my links are very relevant, it's just so that you don't want to see it. The first woman dislikes being seen as nothing from her husband... because he wants sex.

The second adds that extra information after she gets an answer so don't try to be smart with that.

If next post contains a reply about how Googling is right or some other comment on my links, I won't post anymore. Unless you have any other thing to say about relationship without sex on sexual people, I guess I'm done.
No one is born with knowledge. People read and research articles all of the time. This thread isn't the first time I've wondered, "Is it possible to have a healthy relationship without sex?" That's a fact that SHOULD be easy for you to realize, as in my earlier posts I've described knowing people who are in healthy relationships who don't have sex.

I have to say, I'm not sure I appreciate being called "girl" by you. It's damned demeaning. NEVER call me a "girl." I'm a grown ass woman. "Girl" is used for little children and women who are considered inferior by sexist and sometimes racist men.

I'm not going to lie and say that, from the moment you said you're talking about straight people, I didn't immediately think that you're a sexist, homophobic bigot. I still do. You've done nothing to convince me otherwise. You haven't answered any of my questions. You've simply sidestepped them all, and with each post, have become more condescending. You have the attitude of the junior high students I teach: "I'm not right, but I'm going to make everyone think I'm right by being insulting and making a whole lot of people like me! Because I want to be popular and laugh at other people! Because then I'll feel good about myself!" It's a little sad that you need the Internet to feel good about yourself, but hey - if that's your only source of self-esteem, who am I to judge that?

Statements like "don't try to be smart" are ignorant. You're trying to make yourself look superior by assuming an arrogant tone. I'm definitely not in the mood for that right now. I would love to have a serious discussion about this topic, because it's interesting. If you can't take my points seriously, however - if you can't answer the questions I've asked - then I also don't see a point in continuing this. If you ignore an ENTIRE GROUP OF PEOPLE for the sake of your own argument, then you're right: this doesn't make any sense.

I'm also adding you to my ignore list, iPhantom, for the single reason that I think you're a bigot and I'd never want to read one of your prejudice statements ever again. Have a good night.

EDIT: Actually, no. You know what? I'm sorry. I got upset, and it's unnecessary to take than anger out on you. If I said anything insulting, then I really am sorry.

I'm still putting you on my ignore list, though.


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