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Originally Posted by Salvanas
Splendid. Someone who puts words in my mouth! How kind of you!
Where in any of my statements, did I say you had to be upper class? Hm? Pleas,e find it for me, and I'll accept your point.
Until that point, your post is invalid.
The "ideal" environment for a baby to be born, is to a mother who is old enough to understand a babies needs. To a mother who is not a child herself still. To a mother who has atleast finished high school. If that sounds upper class to you, then I don't know what to say.
Note: Lets not make this a religious thread.
EDIT: Sorry, allow me to elaborate why I think such surroundings isn't healthy for a child. Such environments are prone to chaos. A lot of stress is abound in them, and problems arise. Some can turn into violent acts. Research shows that babies that grow up in violent or chaoti surroundings, usually become a danger to the society (my words ofcourse.) in the long run.
So, now if you can't give a baby an ideal environment, you're not just endangering the babys life, but many other people that the baby (in his later life) might end up harming.
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that a big jump of assumptions.
First I deal with "we know who your going to be when your older...." what definitive proof do you have that says that a person (I'm not talking generalizations here) will turn out to be a "bad" person?
Don't we have a saying that ones actions are there own not there FAULT? Point sorry if you had a bad upbringing but that thing you stole/murdered/ whatnot is still something you choose to do. It brings me to a movie I seen recently Midia goes to jail, There was a part where this women kept saying "you don't know what my dad did". Guess what Midia did, she told her to shut up and take responsibility (I'm putting it in polite terms).
Which leads me into another stark contrast to this, and the very reason why I used him first. Obama, stands in against this. He is the United States President, one of the very most powerful positions in the world. Guess what he had a horrible child life.
Psychological studies are at best subjective because we cannot truly test any situation (people are not lab rats, human rights you get the picture), only guess. ALSO people don't stay the same as they age.
FuturePundit: Humans Most Violent When Only 2 Years Old
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I wonder where you got the line "your post is invalid..." On that NO one brought religion into the debate only the mods said not to continue along the lines of the abortion part (to them I'm sorry that I jumped the bought like that, I just got rubbed the wrong way by some posts).
There is a very good reason why I took the liberty to say such a thing (read the third paragraph and you will make a connection between the question). Now you used the word "satisfying", you understand that that such a life very from person to person. Thus having no definitive answer. BECAUSE of that, one can make any assumption as to what you mean, and by that one could also conclude that any body that's not born to idea situation just isn't worth living.
This idea mother, would be good, but that doesn't always happen, NOT at the fault of the child. Ideal situations are nice, but do they rarely occur, especially when someone takes a risk that could bring a unexpected result? the point here, is that you cannot put the blame on someone because of someone actions. One point also to point out, this is generally agreed upon, but still remains in the realm of being subjective (one reason being people of the past had children when there where much younger, had no high school, and could be considered a child).
This also brings me to my last point, PERSONAL responsibility. You commit the act of sex, you make a agreement that you could have a child. Why, you might ask, simple it's a part to the act (might be a weird analogy, but follow it; you put something in your mouth, you know you might swallow it regardless of how careful you are right apply it here). One thing to notice is NO, contraceptive is 100% fool proof (well unless you consider abstinence but that not the debate here). Teenagers must understand the implications of having sex, and the more that it is hit home that you might/will/can whatever have a child the more they take action against such a event.
Someone who could answer, how does teen pregnancy impact Japan, I have a hint because of how they view sex, it's better then here in the United States but I could be wrong.