I don't know if it's just me, but for the first URL you have to login?
I remember reading about this a while ago. I think that's just sad and pathetic.
Some may disagree, but I don't think it's possible to actually fall in love with a character on a piece of paper. Obsession, perhaps?
Just like there's a male who bought a bunch of "love dolls" in Japan and uses those as his lovers because they'll never "cheat" on him.