[TalnSG]

As usual, you and I are in basic agreement, Salvanas.

And yes, let's be clear that rape - at least the real sort and usually the fantasy too, is first and foremost about power, not really sex. In the real world sex is merely the tool for exertion of power. And because sex is the ultimate personal act, it is one of the most intense demonstrations of power that is possible to inflict by a single person.

And yes, because of the abdication of responsibility and power, there are many women who share the fanasty.... as long as it remains a fantasy.

For those of us with a dominate and sadistic side, it becomes a question of self restraint, consequences, personal inclinations and the weighing of reality vs. fantasy.