[Nyororin]

clintjm - Allow me to ask.

Have you ever looked into actually adopting a child in Japan?
Let me guess - No. Some of us, however, have. Some of us know foreigners who adopted children in Japan. Some of us know foreigners in Japan with adopted children brought from elsewhere.
You have made it quite clear that you don`t really like Japan, don`t enjoy living there, and have serious issues with the culture and lifestyle. Some people do not. Learn to live with it.