[TalnSG]

This may sound odd, but read the entire idea.

First, don't waste our time arguing with them or trying to understand their neurotic behavior.

Second, gather everything they are wanting you to get rid of that you can possibly part with and has any value and SELL it. Take the funds from the sale of your departed Japanese stuff and start a savings fund. In the long run the things you are going ot lose will not really matter, only your feelings and thoughts. You will learn from the sacrifice and it will remove some of the hostility it is generating.

When there is enough in the savings - move out!

Then you can slowly replace what was lost with hopefully an even better collection.

They can ignore you, bean you from their house, but they cannot stop you from living in this country and participating in stopping this sort of irrational idiocy from continuing.