[junko44]

if i were you and really wanted to go lolita, i'd say "screw it. i can dress however i want and if people give me crap, so what?" i'm a decora though, so i don't know how it would go for a lolita. i get stares and people call me a freak at school, but i just figure that if they can't accept how i am or how i want to be, then they don't matter. and they don't do it as much as when i first started. also, if you don't want to be called emo maybe you could try a "sweet lolita" approach. Sweet lolita wear pastels or reds and go for more of a cute look than gothic lolita. or even do both if you want! i know middle school kids are cruel these days, but eventually they'll learn to deal with it.