[Ryzorian]

It really might depend on her family. I know someone who met a Japanese girl who studied at a Big 10 school and ended up getting married to a American. True the guy was like the son of some architect and had a set Job after school so finance wasn't an issue. I think her parents were all for it because they felt thier daughter would have a better chance to succeed in the states on her own merits, than perhaps she would in Japan.

Course that's second hand info so I could be completely off my rocker here. Not that I'm not normally off my rocker to begin with, but hey.

You might want to check into how her family would respond, it could forstall alot of grief later all the way around.