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OHHHHH I see what your'e saying.
Hm... You might have a tough time. Custom-making the clothes yourself might be a fun and rewarding experience. It also might be cheaper. I've seen a LOT of "fashiony" type stuff on Japan's Yahoo! Auction. We're talking designer label stuff for super cheapy cheap. Maybe take a swing at that and mention that you're willing to pay shipping? Or if you have a proxy in Japan who can buy them for you and you can have them ship it over?

As for geta; hit any of the hundreds of anime conventions in America and the dealer's room there will have some in your size most likely.