[Shanis]

Originally Posted by Amoni

Oh agree support helps make it so much easier.

My story... Was a long time ago. He was my best friend long before it turned into anything more. For a long time after we realized how we felt we fought it. haha we did a very poor job of that if you ask me! We did end up together but... People can know someone too well. That was our case. We knew each other so well that eventually his natural protective nature and my friendly personality clashed. I had left our home town for the military and made lots of new friends. Many of whom happened to be male. (the military is still a mainly male group) He was very unhappy about that. he made some very untrue accusations and it ended up making us hate each other.

I do not hate him now and I understand why he began to get scared but I loved him. Still do to be honest. but we are different people now. I have grown into a very different person. So has he.

it is nothing compared to the things others have had to face but it hurt me.

That's so sad. It alway makes me sad when friends go diffrent ways though it seems you two just didn't spend enough time together. Have you ever tried to talk to him about the things happened?

Well my story is just that me and my friend attempt diffrent schools after 10th grade, in germany you can either start going work or attempt school for three aditional years to go study after it, because from my village I can't attempt the school he attempts cause there is no bus connection and he had a problem with the school I attempt because his simblings were there too and they had big trouble with the teachers so his family hates that school. After one year and a half he told me that our friendship has ended cause he found new and better friends at his new school. It wouldn't be that sad wouldn't he have been my best friend for 6 years at that moment. From first day on we shared our hobbies, dreams and tables at school, in germany you have two-people-table from grade five to ten. We always spend our time together playing consol, pc, going for a walk with either his or my dog, going to cinema, etc., actually we didn't even have any other real friends, just some guys from his village we spend some time with at school or at birthday parties. That's why it was so sad when ended our friendship for people he only knew for a year. Well I'm neither gay nor do I still miss him but at that time I did :/ After all I'm happy things happened like that cause I also found new friends in my new class at same time he did and with them I have as much fun as with him and I even get to know more people and even girls xD

I know it can't be compared to things I've read in this thread but I didn't want to be the only one not posting his sad story