10-23-2009, 03:59 AM
I believe you advance through life because of the choices you make not choices someone else makes for you before your born or even before you can even comprehend what love and marriage are. We grow from our experience in life and that may include finding the wrong person because if the relationship does not work out you were still able to grow and learn from the experience. Arranged marriages are really a cultural thing however they go against what i believe not that they are wrong i just dont believe in them. I also think they are archaic. After all i doubt the man down the street is marrying his daughter off to some heir apparent of a nation that bridges the gap and prevents war.
Iv know two people in my life who were arranged to be married. Lets just say i met them after they fled from home to another country.
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