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No I don't believe he gets it from his dad, I don't know much about how dna works either which is why I said it's highly unlikely, he is the only person I can think of who his behaviour resembles tho when it comes to the lies and i've no explanation to that except that it does.
I personally believe a child's behaviour reflects on the type of environment theyre in and how theyre being treated and in my case I believe he's in a good one. I left his father for this very reason that I didn't want him in my baby's life and he isn't which is why i'm so baffled. I absolutely adore him and treat him well, it is just the fiction he makes up that I consider negative in him other that that he's a lovely bright intelligent happy boy, the closest i've come to getting an answer is when a friend suggested he might b behaving like this because he's angry with me for not being around as much and might b doing it for attention, also because he knows I work with kids and feel I prefer to b with them than him, unfortunately if that is the case it can't b changed because I hav to work to b able to provide for him

Either way I hav to find out if any of what he's saying is true and hav decided to install a cam in the main room and switch it on before I leave that way i'll hav 2hrs of what she's like with him when i'm gone which is when he say says she apparently 'changes' towards him, also am gonna install audio somewhere on him for when theyre out... don't kno much about them tho so will b looking into that, anyone kno how long they last, where, which one, and how I use them??