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Originally Posted by mrBee
......Theonly thing is that well for one, she lives in japan. Moreover, she's outgoing, travels alot and is probably talkative and lively. I'm shy and quiet.
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Distance is always problematic, but not always insurmountable. Just be prepared for it. But the opposite nature is rarely a problem, and sometimes a good mix for each. My first husband was beginning to be withdrawn just about the time I started be more outgoing. It was more of a balance for us than a problem.
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Also, since she goes out alot and is the type that sometimes goes to bars and stuff like that I'm sure she meets guys and she probably will meet her guy that way and wants a japaneses man.
Well in the letter response i sent to her yesterday, i just threw it all out there and told her how i feel. I told her how she's special to me.
I fear she might think i'm weird and stupid and maybe she'll even end our rpenpal relationship.
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There is a definite potential that you will lose her to someone she meets in person first, especially with her being in Japan and having a preference for Japanese men. But preferences have a way of being put aside when the right person comes along.
Don't fret over it. Being honest may make her hesitant, or even turn her away, but whether it works out or not, you will have less to worry about. And if she is interested, the disclosure will be very welcome.