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Originally Posted by knucKles

I'm a guy so I'm not interested in any man but I was living in Japan for a year and I saw how those guys handle their women. My current girlfriend had to get up in the middle of the night and cook for her ex-boyfriend. Seriously, do you wanna spend your life like this? Emanzipation in Japan still has a looong way to go. Of course the guys attract grils with their weird haircuts and homo-clothes but do you really wanna get handled like a dog?

For me as a guy I can say that I'm also not interested in japanese girls. First they attracted me cause they really are goddamn sexy but I realized that I don't want a girl that does everything I want. And also they will never tell you the truth directly in your face. If they don't like you, they still date you. I feel punked.

I understand why you are attracted optically but not why you like the personality.

Yeah, but even still then... I mean, guys are guys. Also, a relationship is a two way street, so if he tries to treat me as such, then he would never had really liked me in the first place, meaning he wouldn't have been tolerate on my ways of life. But I still would like to date a Japanese guy. If he wants to date this American girl, then he must like me for more than looks.