For some reason i have been seeing more discussions like this and not just around here and im not entirly sure.
But heres a read for you im not sure of the truthfulness behind it but when I read this i felt so bad for this guy i wanted to buy him a beer.
The fatally flawed math of risking it all in Japan
For foreigners hoping to settle down and have children here, Richard Cory has some harsh truths
The fatally flawed math of risking it all in Japan | The Japan Times Online