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Originally Posted by mrBee
Hello all i'm new.
Well i've been penpaling with this Japanese woman for about 1 year. Our relationship is awesome. And she sends me alot of postcards, sometimes gifts, sometimes photos.
I've started to feel like she's really nice and special Plus she's so pretty and attractive. She's single.
Theonly thing is that well for one, she lives in japan. Moreover, she's outgoing, travels alot and is probably talkative and lively. I'm shy and quiet.
Also, since she goes out alot and is the type that sometimes goes to bars and stuff like that I'm sure she meets guys and she probably will meet her guy that way and wants a japaneses man.
Well in the letter response i sent to her yesterday, i just threw it all out there and told her how i feel. I told her how she's special to me.
I fear she might think i'm weird and stupid and maybe she'll even end our rpenpal relationship.
I'm kinda scared of what can happen. should i?
i'm in my late 20's, she in her mid 20's
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Well, I think you were brave enough to do that. Actually, if you want to start a relationship with someone, one of you should be the ice breaker. And you were. Hehe~
I am not sure where you are from, but I think you are non-Japanese guy. I think Japanese people are quite traditional at some points. Maybe it's a sort of challenge to them to accept international relationship or marriage (Maybe I am wrong, sorry ahead). Who knows actually she likes you but she has her worry?
Anyway, I think you got a start, it was better than nothing. Otherwise, you guys might just keep in touch with the way you were. Well done, man, no matter how the result is, you were a brave ice breaker.
I wish you all the best!
